Families of Veterans and First Responders

“It is my wish that this country’s Veterans and their families are given the respect, support, and thanks that they so profoundly deserve. This is just one small part of the cradle-to-grave covenant for their service and sacrifice.” LGen (Ret’d) The Hon. Roméo A. Dallaire

Families of military members, CAF and RCMP Veterans, and first responders are the strength beside the uniform. They should not be forgotten, or be an afterthought. They have had to balance a myriad of unique demands and unpredictability. Military and RCMP families in particular face risks associated with frequent geographical relocations due to postings; a member’s absences from family due to operational tempo; a member’s operational illness, injury, or death; personal well-being and mental health; separation from their support system; financial stress; and intimate partner relationships.

The majority of families are resilient and manage these challenges successfully. However, ongoing stressors can deeply affect family life and relationships, leading to family instability, marital conflict and domestic violence, spousal depression, anxiety and secondary trauma, all interfering with effective parenting and an increased risk for emotional and behavioral problems among military children. These issues can occur during service, and be exacerbated during or after the transition to civilian life due to lack of supports and isolation. Even divorce, housing insecurity and homelessness can become a reality if veteran families do not receive appropriate and timely support.

For families who struggle, access to systems of care and supports can enhance their resilience to manage transitional challenges. The following programs and resources can provide some well needed support and are accessible from most parts of the country.